Finding Calm in the Chaos
Emily Hayes Emily Hayes

Finding Calm in the Chaos

Life feels loud right now, the kind of busy where your brain never quite shuts off. In the middle of it all, I’m learning to stop chasing balance and instead find small moments of calm. Sometimes that calm comes from a deep breath, and sometimes it comes from letting my mind wander somewhere far away.

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New Year. Same Me. And That’s Not a Bad Thing.
Emily Hayes Emily Hayes

New Year. Same Me. And That’s Not a Bad Thing.

The “New Year, New Me” pressure hits hard every January, especially for moms and women who are already exhausted from the holidays. This year, what if we didn’t rush into unrealistic goals or force change before we’re ready? Growth doesn’t have to be loud or immediate. Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is pause, breathe, and allow ourselves to simply be okay right where we are.

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When When Holiday Stress Turns You Into the Version of Yourself You Swore You’d Never Be
Emily Hayes Emily Hayes

When When Holiday Stress Turns You Into the Version of Yourself You Swore You’d Never Be

Holiday stress has turned my husband and me into two tired, annoyed gremlins arguing over who breathed wrong. And sure, everyone loves to say “we take out our anger on the people we’re closest to,” but honestly? That feels like a cute excuse to be a jerk.

The truth is, it’s nearly impossible to communicate your needs when you’ve got 700 mental tabs open and every single one is screaming. This season is messy, overwhelming, and emotional, and if you’re fighting more with your spouse right now, you’re not alone. You’re just December-ing.

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The Everything Shower That Never Happens Anymore
Emily Hayes Emily Hayes

The Everything Shower That Never Happens Anymore

Motherhood turned my “everything shower” into a full-contact sport. I used to actually enjoy taking care of myself, now I’m breaking up sibling fights with conditioner still in my hair and negotiating with myself just to wash my face at night. This is the unfiltered truth about why mom self-care feels impossible…and how I’m learning to take myself off the bottom of my own list.

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The Default Parent Paradox:
Emily Hayes Emily Hayes

The Default Parent Paradox:

Being the default parent isn’t something you sign up for, it’s something you slowly become. And one day you look up and realize everyone else gets breaks… except you. This is the raw, funny, exhausting truth about why moms are always “on,” even when we’re desperate for two uninterrupted hours.

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The Thanksgiving Pressure Cooker (And Why Moms Deserve a Break)

The Thanksgiving Pressure Cooker (And Why Moms Deserve a Break)

Thanksgiving is supposed to feel warm and magical… yet somehow moms end up carrying all the stress. Hosting, cooking, managing kids, navigating in-laws, and trying to create “core memories” can feel overwhelming. Here’s your reminder that the holiday doesn’t have to be perfect, your presence is enough.

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